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| Why Things Change In The Relationships? |
| by: Lee Bastien |
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Firstly I must say that things don't change but
people change. Let me explain to you why I said
so.
In the beginning of a relationship where or when "
boy meets girl" everything is exciting. A lot is
focused on looks, how do I look or I got to make
sure he or she likes what I am wearing and always
looking attractive. Right! That normally goes on
for about 3 months to 6 months and then it stops
until as a couple you going out for dinner or
some special occasion.
Now six months later things start to become
boring and dead and the relationship don't seem
to be exciting any more. You ask, "Why is that
happening?" The reason is like before in the
beginning of the relationship you both made an
effort to dress to impress each other. Why not 6
months down the line or even a year into the
relationship you do the same as in the beginning?
Keep the excitement going and growing, keep each
other excited about wanting to be around each
other. But in all that excitement always keep the
communication aspect of the relationship open or
on going.
Ok back to keeping the excitement going. Bear
this in mind that when a woman walks down the
street looking sexy maybe with short a short
skirt on or even looking sophisticated with some
high hill shoes or flat ones, you find that a
woman will catch a man looking or steering. Even
women will look and make a comment in her mind or
to her boyfriend or husband. You get the point!
Well it is simple because we get attracted to
these things because it is eye catching.
So why not take this same concept and apply it in
your daily routine at home. Women when your man
walks in from work or where ever he was and comes
into the house, stop what you are doing (like
watching soaps) and greet him with a great big
hug and a nice passionate kiss and whisper in his
ears "baby you know I miss you today, I was
thinking about you all day I couldn't get you out
of my head and was getting really excited" then
smile or chuckle and kiss him again. Its all
about the art of seduction Do you see where I am
going with this and what I am talking about?
Change your style of dressing on a weekly basis
or daily if you can. It doesn't have to be buying
lingerie, just wear something sexy. A nice short
skirt or some short pants or even go as far as
wearing one of his vest or shirts. I leave you to
imagine the possibilities. The reason to all this
is to help keep the excitement up and he will not
get tired of seeing or get use to seeing you in
the same old clothes everyday.
That will keep his heart racing and he will be
thinking of you and what might happen or will see
you in when he comes home. But don't start
dressing to sexy and then taking that sexiness
out of the house because you know what he will be
saying. Once you start going out like this all he
will be thinking of or make you look like you
doing is looking for attention just like those
women out there that do it. What you need to
concentrate on is how to keep your boyfriend or
husband attracted to you at all times. Keep up
the excitement.
Oh yea, women please, please take good care of
yourself, keep looking sexy for him, keep fit,
keep that figure which attracted him in the first
place and better yet look hotter than ever. Don't
let your body go and start putting on weight.
Think of it if your man met you while you were
slim, fit and looking sexy which is what
attracted him why would you allow yourself to
change. Six months or more years down the line
when you start asking yourself or telling him
that he doesn't look at you anymore or why is he
all of a sudden looking at other women the way
you want him to. Then ask yourself what you are
not doing right. So keep in mind its all about
excitement. Keep him excited at all times.
I know you will say that that you got a lot on
your mind and you haven't got time and you got no
money to spend. But trust me if you were single
and in the same situations and was dating you
would find the money or a way to look your best
and look sexy. You don't always have to buy to
look sexy and be exciting. Be creative. Not
having you man interested in you is even more
stressful. So please take hid and start making
things more exciting in the relationship starting
today. It is never too late. I guarantee you an
exciting change will be noticeable in his
interest from the day you start.
So you ask, "what about him, doesn't he have to
make an effort to?" Ah ha, I thought you would
never ask. Of course he has to make an effort
with his self because if he doesn't the woman
will start having wondering eyes. All I have to
say is men keep the sexy handsomeness, keep fit,
make that body look solid and treat your woman
right and she is yours forever. Don't be lazy and
always into those video game, staying out late
without her or always with your friends or just
sit on the couch and drink all day and paying no
attention to your woman. Your woman is yours to
keep so make the effort, if not someone else will
have her and you don't want that if you love her.
If you don't love her let her go. |
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This article was posted on June 20, 2007
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